Make the German Dative Your Friend: mit, zu, nach, bei & indirect objects
Ever hear people say mit dem Bus, bei der Bank, or zum Arzt? That’s the dative case in action — and it’s everywhere in daily German. In this friendly A2 guide, you’ll learn when to use the dative, how articles change, the most common dative prepositions, and simple patterns for indirect objects (the person “receiving” something). We’ll keep it practical with phrases you can use today.
Why the dative matters
The dative often answers the question “to whom/for whom?” and shows location after certain prepositions.
- Indirect object: Ich gebe dem Mann das Buch. (I give the book to the man.)
- Location: Ich bin bei meinen Eltern. (I’m at my parents’.)
Two big places you’ll meet the dative:
- After dative prepositions (mit, zu, nach, bei, von, aus, seit)
- As the indirect object with verbs like geben, zeigen, schicken, bringen, sagen, helfen, danken, gefallen
Let’s look at a few clear examples.
Ich gehe Arzt.
Dative prepositions you hear every day
These prepositions are reliably dative. Memorize them and your German gets much smoother:
- mit (with)
- zu (to, toward people/places like Arzt, Bäcker)
- nach (to, for cities/countries; after)
- bei (at, with, near)
- von (from, of)
- aus (out of, from)
- seit (since, for — duration)
Learn them with short, real-world examples.
Indirect objects: who receives something
With verbs like geben, zeigen, schicken, bringen, sagen, schreiben, the receiver is dative.
- Ich zeige der Frau das Foto. (receiver = der Frau)
- Kannst du mir bitte helfen? (mir = to me)
Try building a sentence with an indirect object.
Start with Ich, then the verb. Dative (dem Kind) comes before the direct object (einen Apfel).
Wir treffen uns Bahnhof.
Dative for location (not movement)
Two-way prepositions (in, an, neben, vor, hinter, unter, über, zwischen) use dative for location and accusative for movement. At A2, focus on location = dative.
- Das Café ist neben dem Museum. (location → dative)
- Er sitzt an dem Tisch. (location → dative)
Put a small dialogue in order.
Dative verbs you should know
Some verbs take the dative every time:
- helfen (to help)
- danken (to thank)
- gefallen (to please)
- gehören (to belong)
Notice the conjugation of helfen in the present tense:
| Pronoun | Conjugation |
|---|---|
| ich | helfe |
| du | hilfst |
| er/sie/es | hilft |
| wir | helfen |
| ihr | helft |
| sie/Sie | helfen |
Culture tip: everyday places = dative
In German towns you’ll often hear set phrases with dative + contractions:
- beim Amt (at the municipal office)
- bei der Bank (at the bank)
- beim Arzt (at the doctor)
- zum Bäcker / zur Post (to the baker’s / to the post office)
These are the natural, idiomatic choices locals use.
Ich gehe zu der Schule. → Ich gehe zur Schule. zu + der → zur. Contractions are common and sound natural.Quick practice
A few fast checks to lock it in:
- If it’s “with” (mit), use dative: mit dem/der/den
- If it’s “to (person/shop)” (zu), think zum/zur
- If it’s a stationary location with a two-way preposition, use dative: im Zimmer, am Tisch, neben dem Haus
- For indirect objects, put the dative before the direct object: Ich gebe dem Kind einen Apfel.
One more common mistake to avoid:
Ich treffe mich mit die Freunde. → Ich treffe mich mit den Freunden. mit takes dative; plural dative article is den, and Freunde already plural → Freunden often with -n (den Freunden).Wrap-up
You’ve learned the dative for indirect objects and locations, the core dative prepositions (mit, zu, nach, bei, von, aus, seit), article changes (dem, der, den), and handy contractions (zum, zur, beim, im, am).
Keep listening for dative in the wild: beim Arzt, bei der Bank, mit dem Bus, zur Post. Practice small patterns every day, and the dative will become automatic.
Viel Erfolg — you’ve got this!